Don’t Ever Let these 5 kinds of people in Your Life.
Those who choose to surround yourself with will play a huge part in the quality of your life or lack of quality in your life.If you hang around with only angry and negative people your life will be full of anger and negativity..
But if you surround yourself with KIND, COMPASSIONATE AND POSITIVE PEOPLE. Your life will have more kindness and positive energy .
Who you surround yourself with is crucial and sometimes it is important that you reflect on those you are spending the most time with and asking yourself . Do I really want these people in my LIFE?. If you have any of these people in your life . It might be time ti rethink that how much time you spend with them . If any at all . It might not be easy to limit or end all interaction with these people..If there are friends, or family but if they are not making your life or theirs better by you spending time together may be it’s time for both of you to move on .
1. DISHONEST PEOPLE:
2. CONTROLLING PEOPLE.
3. ANGRY BITTER AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE. (VICTIMS MENTALITY)
4. TAKERS (NEVER GIVERS)
5. THOSE WHO HAVE NO DESIRE TO GROW
So you can spot them and if needed so you can spot them and if needed limit your time or end your time with them .
1 ) DISHONEST PEOPLE.
Trust is a major human need for any relationships Friendships, romantic relationships family members . If you can’t trust them .Limit your time with them if they lie repeatedly or rarely give you the full story this is a clear sign they don’t respect you . Address the problem with the person if you can, and the situation doesn’t change move on and move forward . Don’t respond with HATE or revenge in Mind. Just move on take the high road and let them play out their dishonesty elsewhere.. Remember if something feels OFF. It is most likely OFF.
2) CONTROLLING PEOPLE.
FREEDOM is a basic human need we all share and when we feel like another human is controlling us, or trying to it is very uncomfortable and unnatural . When you limit or end your time with these kind of people it will feel like a weight has been lifted of your back . That heavy burden you carry around being under someone else’s command is life-draining. Follow your heart you know those who are right for you .
3 ) ANGRY BITTER AND NEGATIVE PEOPLE.
It goes without saying that your life will be better without angry bitter and negative people in it. But you must be able to spot these people sometimes their behaviour is more subtle that you might think . Constantly judging others always blaming and living in the victim role regularly getting into arguments with others complaining always finding the negative in any situation these kind of behaviours are not good for you.if you want to live a true happy fulfilled life . Find those who see the positive in each situations who respond with compassion , who can calm and light up any room. Your life will be much better for it.
4) TAKERS (NEVER GIVERS).
It’s pretty self-explanatory but it’s those who always EXPECT things to be given to them to be done FOR THEM. But who rarely ever offer the same level of giving in return. It’s the person who calls you when they need you. But doesn’t answer when you needs them . The one who will spend time with you when it suits them but not when it doesn’t .It’s almost like they feel superior above you . Well, they are not . We all are equal and if you find yourself in constant interaction with a taker… end that relationship.and notice how good it feels .
5) THOSE WHO HAVE NO DESIRE TO GROW.
If you are someone who is on a constant never ending search for GROWTH and self development spending time with those who aren’t can be very draining . You may not need to end your time with these people. They may be family or life long friend but to expect your greatest life when you surround yourself with people who have zero intention of getting better ever that’s insanity . At the end of the day YOU CHOOSE who you spend time with and you choose who you spend the most time with . You don’t have to be rude or abrupt or disrespectful when limiting or ending time you spend with people you don’t even have to explain WHY.Just do what feels right for you. Because that , is usually what is right for everybody involved .
Surround yourself with people who reflect who you want to be and how you want to feel, energies are contagious.